Hi Mike,
I'm baffled by this thread.
It's a shame that the person who first posted did not come back and confirm some sort of resolution to his problem, because I read your responses and neither of the alternatives that you gave are available to me.
This is the first time that I've tried to use the Wordpress plugin with 3waylinks, and from inside my 3waylinks backend there is no "upload links page" and thus no Bold Black letters, nor is there any number shown when I click on the "edit" link. It just takes me to the page where I fill out the Domain Details, i.e. Category, Site Description, Link Text etc. (I believe this is step 2 in adding a site).
Perhaps there have been some changes to the 3waylinks backend since July 1st which is the date I noticed this thread began.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Dandy Don